First things first, let us extend our deepest condolences. If you’re reading this, you’ve lost a cherished member of your family, and now you’re navigating the grief that comes with it—both yours and your surviving dog’s. Here at BetterDog, we’ve had our share of heartbreak, and we know this pain all too well.No pup will ever replace the one you’ve lost, but new dogs can carve out their own special place in your heart. So, how do you help the pup who’s just lost their best friend, housemate, and pack buddy?
Acknowledge Their Grief
Dogs grieve in their own way, and just like us, they need time to process. You’ll likely see changes in their behavior: they might sleep more (or less), lose interest in food, or seem more anxious or withdrawn. The best thing you can do during this time is to be there. A comforting touch, a few kind words, or simply sitting together can help fill the void left by their companion. Don’t rush them to “move on.” Let them process at their own pace.
Stick to Routines
Dogs thrive on structure—it’s their safe space in a chaotic world. During this tough time, keep their feeding, walking, and play schedules as consistent as possible. Routine is comforting, and it reassures them that while the pack dynamic has shifted, their world remains predictable and secure.
Offer Extra Comfort & Engagement
In the days and weeks after the loss, your pup might need a little extra love and attention. This could mean more snuggle time on the couch or taking them on a “sniffari” adventure. A sniffari is a leisurely walk where your dog takes the lead, exploring and sniffing to their heart’s content. It’s enriching and therapeutic, creating new positive experiences that can help shift their focus.
Carefully Introduce Socialization
If your pup is up for it, gradually reintroduce them to other dogs. Whether it’s a playdate with a friend’s dog or joining a group walk, these interactions can help them rebuild their social confidence. Keep in mind that they’re now meeting other dogs solo, so your role as their leader is even more important. Step in with calm, clear guidance if you notice any signs of insecurity.
Watch for Prolonged Signs of Grief
Most dogs will start to adjust within a few weeks, but if your pup seems stuck in their grief—showing ongoing anxiety, depression, or changes in behavior—it’s time to seek professional help. A vet or behaviorist can provide additional support and guidance to help them through this tough time.
Honour the Lost Companion Together
Creating a small ritual to honor your lost pup can be healing for both you and your dog. This could be a photo corner, a special walk in their memory, or even a quiet moment at a place they loved. Acknowledging their presence and celebrating their life can bring comfort and closure.
Remember: Dogs Heal Differently
Dogs live in the moment. While they will never forget their lost companion, they’re much better at adapting to change than we are. In time, they’ll find new ways to fill the void—through their bond with you, interactions with other dogs, or new forms of stimulation and enrichment.
A Final Word
While this is all about helping your dog through their grief, don’t forget to care for yourself too. Grief is heavy, and it’s okay to lean on your support system, whether that’s friends, family, or your dog. Together, you’ll navigate this loss and, eventually, find a new rhythm.Your pup is lucky to have you, and together, you’ll get through this—one small step, wag, and cuddle at a time.
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