We need to rethink how we talk about our dogs’ behaviors—especially so-called “problem behaviors.” The language we use shapes how we perceive our dogs, their actions, and how we address issues. Too often, technical jargon creates an air of authority but distances us from the simple truths about our dogs’ instincts and motivations.
Resource Guarding
It sounds technical and serious, making it seem like something only an expert can resolve. But what does it really mean? Your dog doesn’t want to give you something. That’s it. If it’s food, that’s a primal survival instinct. If it’s a teddy bear, it’s more of an attachment. If your dog is holding an object and tugging, it’s using the resource as a way to engage in play—a form of manipulation to get you involved. When you reward this behavior by continuing to tug, you reinforce it. The worst thing you can do is fall into that trap.
If your dog latches on and refuses to let go, this is a test of wills, they are resource guarding. And here’s the thing: you cannot lose this contest. Losing teaches your dog that holding onto things and resisting you works—setting a precedent for future conflicts.
But what about when growling, snapping, or even biting enters the picture? Now we’re talking about a serious relationship problem. Your dog should never, under any circumstance, think that biting you is an option. This signals a fundamental breakdown in trust and structure. If you’re in this situation, don’t guess your way through it—get professional help.
At BetterDog, we specialize in helping owners navigate these difficult relationship shifts that create resource guarding. Changing the dynamic between you and your dog isn’t easy, but trying to solve it from the wrong perspective will only make things worse. If you’re struggling, reach out. We can help you rebuild a healthy, respectful relationship with your dog.
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What to Do When Your Dog Resource Guards
Don’t Snatch It Away
If you grab something from your dog, they learn nothing except that you’re a snatcher. This can reinforce their behavior of holding onto things tightly.
Train “GIVE”
Ideally, you’ve already trained your dog to respond to the “GIVE” command. If so, put your hand out, firmly say “GIVE,” and praise them when they comply. Immediately provide an appropriate chew toy as a reward for making a good choice.
No Trained “GIVE”? Train It Now
Stand tall—height is authority.
Place two fingers on the object for contact, look at your dog, and say “GIVE.”
Do not chase your dog—this is not a game.
Wait as long as needed. This passive approach shows your dog you’re committed to your words.
If necessary, introduce a negative marker (e.g., “Ah-Ha” or “HUP!”) and then switch your tone to neutral when saying “GIVE.”
Once your dog releases the item, praise them and remove it from sight.
Reinforce Control and Boundaries
If you have time, place the object on the floor between you and your dog.
Mark any looks or movements toward the object negatively.
You are now the one guarding it, teaching your dog how committed you are to setting boundaries.
The Most Impactful Training Method
Pick the object your dog loves to take.
Multiply it. If your dog loves chewing your shoes, get a dozen identical ones and drop them all over.
Every time your dog approaches or touches one, correct them.
Every time they sniff and walk away, praise and reward with a chew toy.
Once ignoring the shoes is easy, level up: place toys or tempting items inside them.
Then, move to the final stage: place treats inside the shoes and repeat the process.
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